Dating the alpha male

The new Alpha Female is sometimes accused of behaving in a masculine manner and is even labeled negatively when she is seen to be acting against her traditional roles.There has been some recent media focus on the Alpha Female and it has become apparent that, in the dating world, the more confident, dominant ladies could do with some help.If there were any more alphas, we would be at each others' throats constantly.There would be too much testosterone, too much masculine energy out there. I know for a fact that most women crave dating an alpha guy in some way.That's why we need the more feminine men to balance it out. Even if you like nerdier or quiet guys, you want him to be an alpha in some way, shape, and form.

There are such a small percentage of them because the world can only sustain so many leaders.

So what if an Alpha Female connected with a Beta Male?

A Beta Male is more likely to take the supportive role with a woman, to allow her to lead, to shine, and to be herself in all her glory.

Imagine placing a sign on your forehead that says ‘available’. They often prefer to keep any perceived ‘flaws’ or ‘weaknesses’ to themselves and sometimes find signs of vulnerability in others quite unattractive. When you enter a room it’s not hard to spot the Alphas – they are the men with the loudest voice, the most intense eye contact, the boldest dress style and often, the strongest scent (a throw-back to our animal ancestors). Scientists have found that women are most likely to be attracted to males with high testosterone levels (i.e. When you think about it, it makes sense from an evolutionary perspective, ovulation is the time when women’s brains and bodies are preparing to conceive. In order to change your behaviour, start with your mindset.

Generally speaking, all men are attracted to a level of vulnerability in women. But if you look a little closer, you’ll start to notice the men just to the side of the dominant story-tellers. So keep an eye on your cycle and choose to spend ovulation time having a quite cocktail or coffee with a girlfriend, rather than hunting men. If you are an Alpha Female and you’d like to experiment with Beta Males, start with your imagination.

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