What is the cycle of dating abuse
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For some, the abusive incident is immediately followed by increasing tension before the next incident.
Once the honeymoon phase is over, the tension building phase begins again, and the comforting promises the abuser made will be broken.
The abuser may call the victim frequently during the day, drop by unexpectedly, refuse to let the victim work, check the car mileage, or ask friends to watch the victim.
In relationships where the abuse is primarily psychological, the abuser may suddenly deny the victim access to basic necessities (by changing the locks on the house or cutting off access to a shared checking account, for example), calling the victim humiliating names, or making threats of violence.
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An abuser will attempt to isolate the victim by severing the victim's ties to outside support and resources.
The batterer will accuse the victim's friends and family of being "trouble makers." The abuser may block the victim's access to use of a vehicle, work, or telephone service in the home.